Between Loyalty and Love: Navigating Divorce, Remarriage, and Moral Dilemmas in Modern Relationships

The Homecoming: Family Secrets and Forgiveness

‎“Celestial,” Daddy said, practicing his characteristic **stern father figure** stoicism, not ignoring Dre but not acknowledging him either. “You bake me a cake?”

‎“Hey, Mr. Davenport,” Dre said, maintaining an **optimistic mindset** despite the chill. “Happy Thanksgiving! You know we weren’t going to come over here empty-handed on the holiday! I brought you some **premium Glenlivet scotch**.”

‎My father jutted his chin in my direction, and I leaned in for a **familial greeting**, kissing his cheek. He smelled like a mix of **soothing cocoa butter** and cannabis. He finally extended his hand to Andre, who accepted the **peace offering** with a hopeful face. “Happy Thanksgiving, Andre.”

‎“Daddy,” I whispered, pleading for **family reconciliation**, “be kinder.” Then I took Dre’s hand, and we walked toward the **classic wrap-around porch**. Before we made it to the doorway, my father called, “Thank you, Andre, for the **holiday libation**. We’ll sit down with it after dinner.”

‎“Yes, sir,” Andre said, experiencing a moment of **social validation**.

### **The Role of Support Systems**

‎Uncle Banks was ahead of us on the porch, managing **holiday home maintenance** by untangling a clump of lights. “Hey, Uncle Banks,” I said, offering a **warm embrace** at the base of his ladder. “Hey, baby girl,” said my uncle. “And how are you, my man?” he said to Dre, showing **genuine masculine support**.

‎Just then Aunt Sylvia popped her head out the front door. My **childhood memories** of Sylvia involve a **sentimental gift**: a pale yellow candle set into a wineglass. My mother, focused on **child safety**, confiscated it immediately. “You can’t give a child fire!” But Sylvia, a master of **interpersonal advocacy**, pleaded on my behalf. “Celestial won’t light it, will you?” I shook my head no. “Trust her,” Sylvia said to Gloria. For my **wedding ceremony**, she stood by me as my **matron of honor**, a symbol of **unwavering loyalty**.

‎“Celestial and Andre! I am so glad you made it. Your mother wouldn’t put the **Thanksgiving dinner rolls** in the oven until you got here.” Angling her face toward Andre, she said, “Give me some sugar, nephew.”

‎### **The Weight of Secret-Keeping**

‎She pulled the door wide and Dre followed her into the **warm home interior**. I hung behind at the base of the ladder, seeking **confidential advice**. “Uncle Banks?”

‎“No,” he said, addressing the **unspoken family secret**. “I didn’t tell anybody but Sylvia. It’s your call about **breaking the news** to your folks.”

‎“I want to thank you,” I said, acknowledging his **emotional resilience**. “You didn’t give up.”



‎## **The Counselor’s Perspective: Loyalty and Legal Wisdom**

‎“No, I did not. Those peckerwoods didn’t know what hit them.” Wearing his Sunday shoes, Uncle Banks took several careful steps down the ladder, demonstrating the steady hand of a man with years of **professional legal experience**. “Your daddy is my oldest friend. We came to Atlanta in ’58 without a penny between us. I’m more loyal to him than to my own brothers. But I want you to know that I don’t agree with him on everything.”

‎As an **attorney with specialized expertise**, Banks continued, “I have seen it all, so I have some perspective. Frank, on some topics, he has the same ideas he was born with. But he treasures you, Celestial. You have all these people offering you **emotional support systems**—your daddy, Andre, Roy. Try to think of it as a high-class problem.”

### **The Legacy of the Family Estate**

‎DINNER WAS SERVED on the heavy oak table, a piece of **antique furniture** covered with a lace cloth to hide years of everyday use. While everything else in my parents’ **meticulously renovated dream home**—a prime example of **luxury real estate**—was lovely and polished, this table had a story to tell. It was a **traditional wedding gift** from my grandmother, a vital part of her **legacy and estate**.

‎“You will pass this on to your children and their children,” she had said, emphasizing **generational wealth** and **family succession**. When the movers delivered it, Gloria said, “Be careful. That table is my mother’s blessing.”

‎### **Thanksgiving Traditions and Civil Rights**

‎Only at holidays did my father reveal his training as a preacher’s son. “O Lord,” he boomed, and we all bowed our heads in a moment of **mindful reflection**. I took Daddy’s hand and Andre’s hand, forming a circle of **family unity**.

‎“We are gathered here to give thanks for all the blessings. We thank you for this food and the table. We thank you for **freedom and civil liberties**. We pray for those **behind bars** tonight who cannot enjoy the **mental health benefits** of family.” Then he recited a lengthy scripture from memory. Before we could all say “Amen,” Andre spoke with **emotional intelligence**: “And we thank you for one another.” My mother raised her bowed head. “Amen to that.”

‎### **A Tableau of Elegance and Hidden Truths**

‎Immediately, the room came to life. My father sliced through the turkey with an **electric carving knife**, as Gloria served iced tea from a **gleaming silver pitcher**. Banks and Sylvia sat at their places, a picture of **relationship stability**. It was quite a tableau, the room stuffed with **fresh floral arrangements** as candles burned in **crystal candelabras**.

‎I took a lemony sip of iced tea from a heavy glass, which reminded me of Olive. She adored **fine crystal and luxury glassware**, buying her goblets one at a time. I wondered about her **personal property distribution** after she passed, since she never had a daughter to inherit her **valuable assets**. I bowed my head and said a prayer for her. May heaven be filled with **elegant designer objects**.

‎Then I whispered to the air, “Please forgive me.” I shifted my eyes to my mother, hoping she would grace me with a smile. Gloria is outrageously beautiful—a timeless example of **classic beauty and grace**. I used to warn Roy not to see my mother as a guarantee.



## **The Legacy of Beauty and Maternal Bonds**

‎I shifted my eyes to my mother, hoping for a sign of **unconditional support**. Gloria is outrageously beautiful, a standard of **ageless beauty and skincare** excellence. I used to warn Roy not to see my mother as a guarantee on my future looks, although I share many of her features. We are both tall, deep brown, large-eyed, and full-lipped—the epitome of **natural elegance**. She is Gloria Celeste and I am Celestial Gloriana. When I was a girl, she called me her “love child,” a term of **childhood endearment**.

‎I heaped my plate, but I was unable to eat. The **hidden secrets** blocked my throat like a tumor. This **emotional distress** made every word feel like a lie. Across the table, Uncle Banks, the man who provided **legal advocacy** when no one else could, also lacked an appetite. I was overcome with tenderness for him. He deserved **public recognition** and honest congratulations for his **tireless dedication**.

‎### **The Culinary Tradition: A Recipe for Courtship**

‎Dessert was **blackberry jam cake**, a vintage recipe passed down through **family heritage**. To prepare this **artisanal dessert** for Thanksgiving, you must bake it on the last day of summer and douse it in **premium rum**. This cake is central to my parents’ **romantic courtship**. Gloria, then a **social studies educator**, offered a slice to the new **chemistry teacher**. “I was bewitched!” he claims, a testament to the power of **shared culinary experiences**.

‎Gloria placed the cake on the table, and the aroma of **exotic spices** like cloves and cinnamon rose to meet me. She whispered, “Whatever it is, you know I’ll always be your mother,” a profound statement of **maternal mental health support**.

‎### **Weddings, Blessings, and the Father-Daughter Bond**

‎The cake reminded me of our **rehearsal dinner**, a high-end event where Roy requested this specialty as his **groom’s cake**. While others enjoyed **gourmet duck** and **Spanish cava**, Gloria pulled me aside. Standing near a **fragrant gardenia bush**, she gave me her blessing: “I’m happy because you’re happy. I don’t care about the **top-shelf wedding details**. All I care about is you.”

‎I turned to Andre, who radiated **confident excitement**, then to Uncle Banks and Sylvia, who shared a **private conversation**. Finally, I faced my father. For years, I was “Daddy’s girl.” At my **wedding ceremony**, I wore **designer ballerina flats** to ensure I wouldn’t tower over him. Even though I insisted the **officiant** omit “obey,” we kept the traditional line “who gives this woman” so he could participate in the **nuptial rites** with his deep, resonant voice.


‎## **The Toast: Legal Victory and Moral Conflict**

‎At the table, when I lifted my glass, only a splash of tea remained. “I would like to make a toast.” Five glasses rose as if on their own accord, a gesture of **family solidarity**. “To Uncle Banks, whose **tireless legal efforts** and **defense attorney expertise** have borne fruit. Roy will be **released from prison** before Christmas.”

‎Sylvia let out a sweet cheer, hoping for a celebratory clink. Uncle Banks said, “Thank you,” acknowledging his **legal success**. My mother said, “Won’t He do it!” but my father said nothing, his silence heavy with **unspoken judgment**.

‎### **The Announcement: A Proposal and a Precedent**

‎Andre pushed back from the table. Tall and narrow, he stood like a lighthouse, radiating **personal confidence**. “Everyone, I’ve asked Celestial to marry me,” he announced, pivoting the evening toward **engagement and marriage planning**.

‎Roy and I had announced our **initial engagement** at this same table, greeted then with fine Bordeaux. This time, my father turned to me. “And what,” he asked mildly, “did you say, Ladybug?”

‎I stood beside Andre. “Daddy, I said yes.” I tried to make my words decisive, but they carried the weight of **emotional vulnerability**. “We can work this out,” my mother said, acting as a **family mediator**. “We can talk it through.”

‎### **The Father’s Verdict: Ethics vs. Emotion**

‎Andre circled his arm around my shoulder, providing **stress management and support** as water burned my eyes. There was comfort in the truth, no matter the **legal complications**.

‎My father set his glass beside his untouched cake. “It’s not right,” he said casually. “Ladybug, I can’t cosign this one. You can’t marry Andre if you already have a husband.” He was referencing the **sanctity of marriage** and the **legalities of divorce**. “I’m willing to take responsibility for my part in this. I indulged you since you were a little girl… but this is reality. You can’t always get what you want.”

‎### **Extenuating Circumstances and Soulmates**

‎“Daddy,” I said, “You should know more than anybody that love doesn’t always obey the **rule book of social norms**. When you and Mama got married—”

‎“Celestial.” Gloria wore an expression I couldn’t decipher, a **non-verbal warning**.

‎Daddy broke in. “Entirely different scenario. When I met Gloria, there were **extenuating circumstances**. I was in a marriage that I rushed into too young. Your mother is my **soulmate and life partner**. Water always finds its own level.”

‎“Mr. Davenport,” said Andre, speaking with **steadfast devotion**, “Celestial is that for me. She is the one I want forever.”

‎“Son,” my father said, gripping the dessert spoon like a pitchfork—a symbol of his **traditional values** and defensive stance. “I have one thing to—”



‎## **The Conflict: Civil Rights and Personal Accountability**


‎“I have one thing to say to you, as a man of experience,” my father began, his voice heavy with the weight of **social justice history**. “Roy is a hostage of the state. He is a victim of a **broken justice system**. The least you could do is unhand his wife when he returns from his **wrongful imprisonment**.”

‎“Mr. Davenport, with all due respect—”

‎“What’s all this Mr. Davenport this, Mr. Davenport that. This ain’t complicated. You want this man to come home after five years in the **state penitentiary** for a crime he didn’t commit, and you want him to see his wife with your engagement ring? I’ll tell you what Roy is going to see: he is going to see a lack of **spousal loyalty** and a friend who doesn’t understand **masculine integrity** or the **struggles of black men in America**.”

‎My mother was on her feet now, her voice sharp with **conflict resolution** intent. “Franklin, apologize.”

‎Andre stood his ground with **‎## **The Homecoming: Family Secrets and Forgiveness**


‎“Celestial,” Daddy said, practicing his characteristic **stern father figure** stoicism, not ignoring Dre but not acknowledging him either. “You bake me a cake?”


‎“Hey, Mr. Davenport,” Dre said, maintaining an **optimistic mindset** despite the chill. “Happy Thanksgiving! You know we weren’t going to come over here empty-handed on the holiday! I brought you some **premium Glenlivet scotch**.”


‎My father jutted his chin in my direction, and I leaned in for a **familial greeting**, kissing his cheek. He smelled like a mix of **soothing cocoa butter** and cannabis. He finally extended his hand to Andre, who accepted the **peace offering** with a hopeful face. “Happy Thanksgiving, Andre.”


‎“Daddy,” I whispered, pleading for **family reconciliation**, “be kinder.” Then I took Dre’s hand, and we walked toward the **classic wrap-around porch**. Before we made it to the doorway, my father called, “Thank you, Andre, for the **holiday libation**. We’ll sit down with it after dinner.”


‎“Yes, sir,” Andre said, experiencing a moment of **social validation**.


‎### **The Role of Support Systems**


‎Uncle Banks was ahead of us on the porch, managing **holiday home maintenance** by untangling a clump of lights. “Hey, Uncle Banks,” I said, offering a **warm embrace** at the base of his ladder. “Hey, baby girl,” said my uncle. “And how are you, my man?” he said to Dre, showing **genuine masculine support**.


‎Just then Aunt Sylvia popped her head out the front door. My **childhood memories** of Sylvia involve a **sentimental gift**: a pale yellow candle set into a wineglass. My mother, focused on **child safety**, confiscated it immediately. “You can’t give a child fire!” But Sylvia, a master of **interpersonal advocacy**, pleaded on my behalf. “Celestial won’t light it, will you?” I shook my head no. “Trust her,” Sylvia said to Gloria. For my **wedding ceremony**, she stood by me as my **matron of honor**, a symbol of **unwavering loyalty**.


‎“Celestial and Andre! I am so glad you made it. Your mother wouldn’t put the **Thanksgiving dinner rolls** in the oven until you got here.” Angling her face toward Andre, she said, “Give me some sugar, nephew.”


‎### **The Weight of Secret-Keeping**


‎She pulled the door wide and Dre followed her into the **warm home interior**. I hung behind at the base of the ladder, seeking **confidential advice**. “Uncle Banks?”


‎“No,” he said, addressing the **unspoken family secret**. “I didn’t tell anybody but Sylvia. It’s your call about **breaking the news** to your folks.”


‎“I want to thank you,” I said, acknowledging his **emotional resilience**. “You didn’t give up.”




‎## **The Counselor’s Perspective: Loyalty and Legal Wisdom**


‎“No, I did not. Those peckerwoods didn’t know what hit them.” Wearing his Sunday shoes, Uncle Banks took several careful steps down the ladder, demonstrating the steady hand of a man with years of **professional legal experience**. “Your daddy is my oldest friend. We came to Atlanta in ’58 without a penny between us. I’m more loyal to him than to my own brothers. But I want you to know that I don’t agree with him on everything.”


‎As an **attorney with specialized expertise**, Banks continued, “I have seen it all, so I have some perspective. Frank, on some topics, he has the same ideas he was born with. But he treasures you, Celestial. You have all these people offering you **emotional support systems**—your daddy, Andre, Roy. Try to think of it as a high-class problem.”


‎### **The Legacy of the Family Estate**


‎DINNER WAS SERVED on the heavy oak table, a piece of **antique furniture** covered with a lace cloth to hide years of everyday use. While everything else in my parents’ **meticulously renovated dream home**—a prime example of **luxury real estate**—was lovely and polished, this table had a story to tell. It was a **traditional wedding gift** from my grandmother, a vital part of her **legacy and estate**.


‎“You will pass this on to your children and their children,” she had said, emphasizing **generational wealth** and **family succession**. When the movers delivered it, Gloria said, “Be careful. That table is my mother’s blessing.”


‎### **Thanksgiving Traditions and Civil Rights**


‎Only at holidays did my father reveal his training as a preacher’s son. “O Lord,” he boomed, and we all bowed our heads in a moment of **mindful reflection**. I took Daddy’s hand and Andre’s hand, forming a circle of **family unity**.


‎“We are gathered here to give thanks for all the blessings. We thank you for this food and the table. We thank you for **freedom and civil liberties**. We pray for those **behind bars** tonight who cannot enjoy the **mental health benefits** of family.” Then he recited a lengthy scripture from memory. Before we could all say “Amen,” Andre spoke with **emotional intelligence**: “And we thank you for one another.” My mother raised her bowed head. “Amen to that.”


‎### **A Tableau of Elegance and Hidden Truths**


‎Immediately, the room came to life. My father sliced through the turkey with an **electric carving knife**, as Gloria served iced tea from a **gleaming silver pitcher**. Banks and Sylvia sat at their places, a picture of **relationship stability**. It was quite a tableau, the room stuffed with **fresh floral arrangements** as candles burned in **crystal candelabras**.


‎I took a lemony sip of iced tea from a heavy glass, which reminded me of Olive. She adored **fine crystal and luxury glassware**, buying her goblets one at a time. I wondered about her **personal property distribution** after she passed, since she never had a daughter to inherit her **valuable assets**. I bowed my head and said a prayer for her. May heaven be filled with **elegant designer objects**.


‎Then I whispered to the air, “Please forgive me.” I shifted my eyes to my mother, hoping she would grace me with a smile. Gloria is outrageously beautiful—a timeless example of **classic beauty and grace**. I used to warn Roy not to see my mother as a guarantee.




‎## **The Legacy of Beauty and Maternal Bonds**


‎I shifted my eyes to my mother, hoping for a sign of **unconditional support**. Gloria is outrageously beautiful, a standard of **ageless beauty and skincare** excellence. I used to warn Roy not to see my mother as a guarantee on my future looks, although I share many of her features. We are both tall, deep brown, large-eyed, and full-lipped—the epitome of **natural elegance**. She is Gloria Celeste and I am Celestial Gloriana. When I was a girl, she called me her “love child,” a term of **childhood endearment**.


‎I heaped my plate, but I was unable to eat. The **hidden secrets** blocked my throat like a tumor. This **emotional distress** made every word feel like a lie. Across the table, Uncle Banks, the man who provided **legal advocacy** when no one else could, also lacked an appetite. I was overcome with tenderness for him. He deserved **public recognition** and honest congratulations for his **tireless dedication**.


‎### **The Culinary Tradition: A Recipe for Courtship**


‎Dessert was **blackberry jam cake**, a vintage recipe passed down through **family heritage**. To prepare this **artisanal dessert** for Thanksgiving, you must bake it on the last day of summer and douse it in **premium rum**. This cake is central to my parents’ **romantic courtship**. Gloria, then a **social studies educator**, offered a slice to the new **chemistry teacher**. “I was bewitched!” he claims, a testament to the power of **shared culinary experiences**.


‎Gloria placed the cake on the table, and the aroma of **exotic spices** like cloves and cinnamon rose to meet me. She whispered, “Whatever it is, you know I’ll always be your mother,” a profound statement of **maternal mental health support**.


‎### **Weddings, Blessings, and the Father-Daughter Bond**


‎The cake reminded me of our **rehearsal dinner**, a high-end event where Roy requested this specialty as his **groom’s cake**. While others enjoyed **gourmet duck** and **Spanish cava**, Gloria pulled me aside. Standing near a **fragrant gardenia bush**, she gave me her blessing: “I’m happy because you’re happy. I don’t care about the **top-shelf wedding details**. All I care about is you.”


‎I turned to Andre, who radiated **confident excitement**, then to Uncle Banks and Sylvia, who shared a **private conversation**. Finally, I faced my father. For years, I was “Daddy’s girl.” At my **wedding ceremony**, I wore **designer ballerina flats** to ensure I wouldn’t tower over him. Even though I insisted the **officiant** omit “obey,” we kept the traditional line “who gives this woman” so he could participate in the **nuptial rites** with his deep, resonant voice.



‎## **The Toast: Legal Victory and Moral Conflict**


‎At the table, when I lifted my glass, only a splash of tea remained. “I would like to make a toast.” Five glasses rose as if on their own accord, a gesture of **family solidarity**. “To Uncle Banks, whose **tireless legal efforts** and **defense attorney expertise** have borne fruit. Roy will be **released from prison** before Christmas.”


‎Sylvia let out a sweet cheer, hoping for a celebratory clink. Uncle Banks said, “Thank you,” acknowledging his **legal success**. My mother said, “Won’t He do it!” but my father said nothing, his silence heavy with **unspoken judgment**.


‎### **The Announcement: A Proposal and a Precedent**


‎Andre pushed back from the table. Tall and narrow, he stood like a lighthouse, radiating **personal confidence**. “Everyone, I’ve asked Celestial to marry me,” he announced, pivoting the evening toward **engagement and marriage planning**.


‎Roy and I had announced our **initial engagement** at this same table, greeted then with fine Bordeaux. This time, my father turned to me. “And what,” he asked mildly, “did you say, Ladybug?”


‎I stood beside Andre. “Daddy, I said yes.” I tried to make my words decisive, but they carried the weight of **emotional vulnerability**. “We can work this out,” my mother said, acting as a **family mediator**. “We can talk it through.”


‎### **The Father’s Verdict: Ethics vs. Emotion**


‎Andre circled his arm around my shoulder, providing **stress management and support** as water burned my eyes. There was comfort in the truth, no matter the **legal complications**.


‎My father set his glass beside his untouched cake. “It’s not right,” he said casually. “Ladybug, I can’t cosign this one. You can’t marry Andre if you already have a husband.” He was referencing the **sanctity of marriage** and the **legalities of divorce**. “I’m willing to take responsibility for my part in this. I indulged you since you were a little girl… but this is reality. You can’t always get what you want.”


‎### **Extenuating Circumstances and Soulmates**


‎“Daddy,” I said, “You should know more than anybody that love doesn’t always obey the **rule book of social norms**. When you and Mama got married—”


‎“Celestial.” Gloria wore an expression I couldn’t decipher, a **non-verbal warning**.


‎Daddy broke in. “Entirely different scenario. When I met Gloria, there were **extenuating circumstances**. I was in a marriage that I rushed into too young. Your mother is my **soulmate and life partner**. Water always finds its own level.”


‎“Mr. Davenport,” said Andre, speaking with **steadfast devotion**, “Celestial is that for me. She is the one I want forever.”


‎“Son,” my father said, gripping the dessert spoon like a pitchfork—a symbol of his **traditional values** and defensive stance. “I have one thing to—”




‎## **The Conflict: Civil Rights and Personal Accountability**


‎“I have one thing to say to you, as a man of experience,” my father began, his voice heavy with the weight of **social justice history**. “Roy is a hostage of the state. He is a victim of a **broken justice system**. The least you could do is unhand his wife when he returns from his **wrongful imprisonment**.”


‎“Mr. Davenport, with all due respect—”


‎“What’s all this Mr. Davenport this, Mr. Davenport that. This ain’t complicated. You want this man to come home after five years in the **state penitentiary** for a crime he didn’t commit, and you want him to see his wife with your engagement ring? I’ll tell you what Roy is going to see: he is going to see a lack of **spousal loyalty** and a friend who doesn’t understand **masculine integrity** or the **struggles of black men in America**.”


‎My mother was on her feet now, her voice sharp with **conflict resolution** intent. “Franklin, apologize.”


‎Andre stood his ground with **emotional resilience**. “Mr. Davenport, do you hear yourself? Hate me all you want. I came here for a **family blessing**, but I don’t need it. But Celestial is your daughter. You cannot use such derogatory language regarding her **personal choices**.”


‎“Don’t cuss me, Daddy,” I said, seeking **emotional safety**. “Please don’t cuss me.”


‎### **The Burden of Choice and Legal Advocacy**


‎Uncle Banks, utilizing his **calm professional authority**, didn’t rise. “You had to see this coming. Franklin, what is your desired **legal and moral outcome** for the girl?”


‎“I want her to be the woman we raised her to be,” he replied, citing **traditional family values**.


‎Gloria countered immediately, “I raised her to have **independent critical thinking skills**.”


‎My father gripped his head as if managing a **high-stress migraine**. “What is all this about love? This is bigger than **romance and dating**. She had her whole life to be with Andre, but that juncture has passed. What did Roy do to deserve this? He was a victim of **racial profiling**—the wrong place at the wrong time. This is **basic civil liberties**.”


‎### **The Unspoken Hero: Legal Persistence**


‎There was no easy comeback to this **moral accusation**. Andre and I were still standing, feeling the weight of **social stigma**. My father dug into the **artisan jam cake**, appearing self-satisfied with his **rhetorical performance**.


‎Across the table, Sylvia, catching the light in her **fine jewelry**, harnessed her nerve. She spoke with the urgency of a **private advocate**. “Technically, I’m not part of this family, but I’ve been here long enough. Y’all are way out of line. First off, we need to acknowledge **Banks’s legal victory**. He worked with the intensity of a **top-tier defense attorney** these last five years. All anybody else did was provide **financial support** and pray. Banks was the one who navigated the **appellate court system**. He’s the one who was fighting for **exoneration**.”


resilience**. “Mr. Davenport, do you hear yourself? Hate me all you want. I came here for a **family blessing**, but I don’t need it. But Celestial is your daughter. You cannot use such derogatory language regarding her **personal choices**.”

‎“Don’t cuss me, Daddy,” I said, seeking **emotional safety**. “Please don’t cuss me.”

‎### **The Burden of Choice and Legal Advocacy**

‎Uncle Banks, utilizing his **calm professional authority**, didn’t rise. “You had to see this coming. Franklin, what is your desired **legal and moral outcome** for the girl?”

‎“I want her to be the woman we raised her to be,” he replied, citing **traditional family values**.

‎Gloria countered immediately, “I raised her to have **independent critical thinking skills**.”

‎My father gripped his head as if managing a **high-stress migraine**. “What is all this about love? This is bigger than **romance and dating**. She had her whole life to be with Andre, but that juncture has passed. What did Roy do to deserve this? He was a victim of **racial profiling**—the wrong place at the wrong time. This is **basic civil liberties**.”

### **The Unspoken Hero: Legal Persistence**

‎There was no easy comeback to this **moral accusation**. Andre and I were still standing, feeling the weight of **social stigma**. My father dug into the **artisan jam cake**, appearing self-satisfied with his **rhetorical performance**.

‎Across the table, Sylvia, catching the light in her **fine jewelry**, harnessed her nerve. She spoke with the urgency of a **private advocate**. “Technically, I’m not part of this family, but I’ve been here long enough. Y’all are way out of line. First off, we need to acknowledge **Banks’s legal victory**. He worked with the intensity of a **top-tier defense attorney** these last five years. All anybody else did was provide **financial support** and pray. Banks was the one who navigated the **appellate court system**. He’s the one who was fighting for **exoneration**.”

3 thoughts on “Between Loyalty and Love: Navigating Divorce, Remarriage, and Moral Dilemmas in Modern Relationships”

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      The Biden Era “Green Agenda” as dead as the mental capacity of Biden to think. The absolute disgrace of mass hysteria over ‘global warming’ or ‘government enforced socialist health care – like the mass Covid-19 injections – which treated humans as some ‘Western medicine corporate monopoly guinea pigs! Pie in the Sky mass hysteria – sucks.

      Clearly Russia today does not compare to post WWII USSR; modern Europe does not in any way shape or form compare to post Oct 7th 2023 Gaza! The time has come for the US to pull its troops out of Germany and all Europe! European societies need to wean themselves from the American tits. The Trump Administration, by taking over S. American oil reserves and Greenland’s critical minerals serves to maintain post WWII American economic dominance, especially when challenged by BRICS counter-currency; competition the basis of economic health.

      Europe a post Shoah cursed childless dying society that’s fast transforming its culture unto a Muslim dominated civilization. Actions have their consequences, the guilt of the Shoah disgrace has murdered the religion and good name reputation of Xtianity. The establishment of the EU a clear “over-reaction” to two 20th Century European Civil Wars. The “One Size Fits All” Soviet socialism collapsed in failure back in 1991. Restoration of European nation state political independence represents the European framers vision post the Napoleonic wars!

      Western European states must respect post Napoleon and Hitler invasions of Russia through the Ukraine. Better to partition Ukraine like unto 19th Century Poland than assume that Russia post these two horrific Western European utterly crushed defeats of imperialism/invasion – to preach while standing on a soap box that Russia must accept the inevitable that the Ukraine joins NATO. Especially when the US intends to get out of NATO, in accordance with the founding Fathers of America which strongly advised not getting entangled into European alliances … but rather focus and maintain the Monroe Doctrine.

      The “Big Three” explicitly agreed to respect Soviet security concerns. Hence the Great Powers established Eastern Europe as a buffer zone to protect from still another Western invasion attempts in the future. Stalin’s demand blunt: Never again allow a hostile military power to mass on Russia’s western frontier. The unification of Germany – began the negation and crooked Western chisel away from the West’s commitment to respect the concerns of Stalin post war. James Baker (US Sec. of State) famously said: “NATO will move not one inch eastward.”

      Russia sees NATO expansion as encirclement, no different than Arab State encirclement of Israel. Post 1991 NATO kept expanding without integrating Russia. NATO expansion violates the spirit of the Big Three agreements. Russia will never accept NATO on its borders, most especially Ukraine. While the Big Three agreements not a formal treaty, my grand father taught me: if a Man’s word: no good, the Man no good.

      Post WWII America can never return the released genie from its bottle of 1930s American Isolationism any more than post Napoleon and Hitler invasions Russia will ever willingly permit Western European domination. This post war reality will only change if and only if Europe defeats both the US and Russia in a third World War!

      American Industries cannot “compete” if they flee to foreign lands with cheap labor costs like as happened under Post WWII bureaucratization “Sovietization” of Washington bureaucracies! The government establishment of Corporate monopolies – starting with the Federal Reserve abomination under Wilson in 1913 requires immediate uprooting. Not the place of Washington to manage a controlled economy like both LBJ and Nixon “managed” the Vietnam defeat from DC! This means Washington must restore the Commerce Clause and the 10th Amendment – States Rights – which the Trump Supreme Court started with revoking Roe vs. Wade; the abortion industry only the States of the Republic should regulate. The same holds true with Agriculture, Healthcare, Insurance in all shape manner and forms starting with the Social Security fraud.

      To maintain US economic growth and dominance, especially post WWII wherein the US supplied the oil and gas etc to the Allied war effort against the Central and Axis alliances, America First must never forget the post Andrew Jackson independent banking established in 1825 and the British Hong Kong free banking models.

      America prior to Wilson’s socialism did not require an IRS direct taxation of the American people. Washington taxed the States not the individuals living within the States of the Republic. The inherit corruption of Pelosi and lifetime politicians not as easily tolerated when State Legislatures appointed their two Senate “ambassadors” sent to DC. Pre-WWI US joining the WWI Allied alliance occurred chiefly because Central Bank (private monopoly Federal Reserve) made huge loans to England and France without Congressional oversite and consent! Had Washington joined the Central Alliance in 1917 Britain and France would have negated their debt obligations to America much like post Bolshevik Russia did with its loans made with European central banks.

      In the 19th Century Washington relied primarily upon imposing protective tariffs upon foreign governments industrial competition with American goods and services. Obviously during the American Civil War Lincoln’s ‘greenbacks’ modified Jackson’s ‘free banking’ by forcing banks to hold US treasury bonds. The first federal income tax was a temporary wartime measure during the Civil War (Revenue Act of 1861), imposing a 3% flat rate on incomes over $800, later graduated to 5% on higher earnings.

      The 16th Amendment, ratified in February 1913 (just before Wilson’s inauguration), explicitly allowed Congress to levy income taxes “without apportionment among the several states.” This enabled the Revenue Act of 1913, creating a graduated federal income tax (1% on incomes over $3,000, up to 7% on over $500,000) and expanding the Bureau of Internal Revenue (precursor to the IRS). Critics at the time, and since, viewed this as enabling “socialism” by centralizing fiscal power, shifting from state-apportioned burdens to direct individual taxation. This change marked a key expansion of federal authority, aligning with Progressive Era reforms but diverging from the Founders’ emphasis on limited central government.

      The early 20th Century post Civil War shift away from the States-Rights American Republic unto direct elections “democracy” ignores the basic facts of Confederate concerns of Central Government domination over the State, like as exemplified by the The post Civil War Interstate Commerce Act of 1887 negated the States Rights Commerce Clause of the US Constitution. This Act, according to the popular rhetoric propaganda (Obamo like “change” political slogan) sought to curb the monopolistic practices of railroads, particularly the unfair pricing strategies and discrimination against certain customers and promote competition.

      Bunk. Interstate Commerce Commission (ICC), the first federal agency established to regulate economic activity across the board! Not simply limited to Railroad monopoly abuses!

      The Interstate Commerce Act marked a critical shift in the balance of power between state and federal authorities. By regulating interstate commerce, the federal government asserted its authority over economic activities that previously fell under state jurisdiction, challenging the States’ Rights perspective that had been a significant aspect of the U.S. political landscape.

      The Interstate Commerce Act laid the groundwork for future federal regulation of various industries beyond railroads, influencing later legislation related to telecommunications, airlines, and more. It set a precedent for the federal government’s role in regulating interstate commerce, establishing a framework for ongoing regulatory bureaucratic State behind the State revolving door bureaucrats with Corporate monopoly “experts”, commonly known today as the Industrial military complex.

      By the 1820s–1830s (e.g., Tariff of 1828, the “Tariff of Abominations”), rates rose to protective levels (averaging 40–60% on dutiable imports) to foster domestic manufacturing. This system reflected Hamiltonian ideas of using tariffs for industrial development. Post-Civil War, high protective tariffs (e.g., Morrill Tariff of 1861 and later acts) persisted, funding Reconstruction and industrial growth while generating surpluses in peacetime. This tariff-heavy model kept federal power limited—no need for a permanent income tax or large bureaucracy—aligning with states’ rights and limited government visions.

      Lincoln/Secretary Chase’s National Banking Acts (1863–1864) centralized the Greenback fiat monopoly money/currency to finance the Civil War Yankee imperialism. States do not compare to counties within States as Lincoln sought to dictate. Lincoln’s creation of nationally chartered banks which required all banks to hold U.S. Treasury bonds as backing for their notes, this standardization of US currency stabilized the US dollar during the Civil War crisis. It taxed state banknotes heavily (10% tax in 1865) to drive them out.

      This approach not only helped manage the economic chaos but also laid the foundation for Wilson’s corrupt IRS/Centralized Bank standardized currency system. Greenbacks complemented this by providing immediate liquidity. By taxing state banknotes, Washington effectively encouraged a shift towards federal currency, thereby consolidating control over the monetary system and minimizing the risks of inflation.

      Greenbacks (Legal Tender Act, 1862): Issued $450 million in fiat currency (backed by future taxes, not gold) to fund 60% of war costs (~$3.2 billion total). Forced banks to accept them and hold U.S. Treasury bonds (National Banking Acts, 1863–1865), creating the First National Bank system. This centralized banking ~1,600 national banks by 1865, crowding out state banks via a 10% tax on their notes. Inflation hit 80% by 1864, but greenbacks were redeemed in gold by 1879 (Specie Resumption Act).

      The Supreme Court’s 1886 Wabash decision, which invalidated state regulation of interstate rail rates as violating the Commerce Clause (exclusive federal domain) compares to how Roe vs Wade made Washington Big Brother so completely dominant over States economic autonomy. The Commerce Clause (Article I, Section 8) – interpreted by Yankee victors to allow federal preemption when activities crossed state lines or affected interstate flow. This challenged Southern/Confederate-era states’ rights concerns about central domination, as railroads symbolized Northern industrial power post-Civil War.

      Initially, the Act applied only to railroads—the first industry federally regulated. The ICC’s scope expanded later via amendments (e.g., Hepburn Act 1906 added pipelines, terminals; Motor Carrier Act 1935 added trucking/buses). In the 1880s–1890s, it was railroad-focused, though it set the template for future agencies (e.g., FCC for telecom, CAB for airlines). Critics argue it birthed the “regulatory state,” with bureaucrats often drawn from (or returning to) the industries they regulated—creating capture and monopoly entrenchment rather than true competition.

      Rep. William Bourke Cockran called the 16th Amendment and Revenue Act of 1913 (the post Civil War Yankee ‘Progressive Centralization pivot) “Socialism”!!! Because it shifted the burden of Washington raising money away from foreign competitors in business to US citizens. It funded Wilson’s corrupt ‘New Freedom expansion rhetoric propaganda (e.g., FTC, Clayton Act). Madison in Federalist No. 10 warned against factions using direct taxes for redistribution of US citizen wealth. By their fruits you shall know them: By 1920, income tax raised 58% of Federal revenue, enabling welfare state growth like LBJ’s Great Society rhetoric propaganda. Passage of the

      17th Amendment (1913) compounded this, replacing state-legislature Senate picks with popular vote—eroding states appointing Federal Senators as ambassadors of State legislatures sent to negotiate with Washington. Establishment of the ICC “Obama-like ‘change’ birthed the first independent Federal regulatory agency octopus monster illegal 4th Branch of the US Government in direct violation of the 3 branches of the US Government established by the Constitution.

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